Life is a party, dress like it. I've had many, you know, happy ending sleepovers so far. This is my period of exploration. I think that's essential. Anyone who hasn't had a lesbian moment is probably trying to avoid some confrontation with reality in their life. And the more friends, the merrier the party! While you may not want an overly structured and programmed party, it's always a good idea to list down a few group activities and prepare for them in advance. Give your guests the freedom to mingle with one another and enjoy each other's company, but these activities will come in handy when you notice things slowing down. Chillin' out on the bed in a hotel room watching TV, while wearing your own pajamas, is sometimes the best part of a vacation. But other times, when you're with your friends, the action can go south. Seeing each other in pajamas can make some want to see each other without so it's no wonder that a pajama party can become a regular fuck fest!